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How to tell if a girl is interested in you

Jan 12th 2023 4 Min read


It’s not always easy to know if a girl is interested in you. Some girls are vocal and may let you know, but some are more subtle and they can be hard to read if you don’t know what to look for. They may not even give you a clear answer if asked. But there are some sure-fire signs and social cues to look out for to see if she is interested in you or not.

1. Eye contact and body language

You can read her body language, listen to her voice, or watch her eye contact as a first indication to see if a girl is interested. These are great first indications for any girl you’ve just met. Things to look out for are:

  • eye contact: if she looks at you for long periods of time and maintains eye contact throughout the conversation then chances are that she likes what she sees!
  • leans in when she listens to what you are saying
  • smiles at you

But try not to put too much weight on this. She may just be being nice, or it may be required from her, for example if she’s currently working a job as a cashier.

2. They seem more eager to talk to you

A girl that is interested in you will actively participate in conversations with you, whether you are speaking in person or over text. She won't just nod her head as you speak or send one-word text message; instead, she will continue the conversation by adding questions and adding her own inputs. Furthermore she may laugh at your jokes, even if they're not funny. If she constantly seems uninterested in you or what you have to say she likely she isn’t into you.

3. Physical contact

The third sign is physical contact, if she touches your hand, arm, or chest while talking with you, which shows that she feels comfortable around you and trusts you enough to show her vulnerability.

4. She tells you she’s single

When she speaks, pay close attention to whether she ever brings up her relationship situation. If she keeps telling you she’s single, she may even tell you she needs a date to an event or someone to go to dinner with her so she's not alone. Chances are she's waiting for you to get the hint.

5. She makes time for you

She makes time for you in her busy schedule, is one surefire indication that a girl likes you. She will regularly make herself available to you, whether it be in person, over the phone, or by sending you a nice text. After all, why would she bother if she doesn’t like you.