Online dating sites and apps
First let’s start with the obvious. Online dating has changed the game with their convenience. With your phone, you can browse through millions of users. However their ease of use comes with some cons.
Firstly, online dating apps are extremely competitive, for example, for every girl on Tinder there are 9 men. That means that unless you are top 11.11% of men then online dating is usually a fool’s errand. They are very appearance based, so you will often lose to men better looking than you and it can be very hard to showcase your other attributes online. Furthermore online dating tends to be filled with all sorts of people: girls who look nothing like their photos, girls with ridiculous standards, fake accounts, scammers, catfishes, single mums, etc. In general they are a hit-or-miss place to find high-value women so it can be very hard to choose the girl of your dreams and separate her from everyone else.
So while dating apps and other online dating sites are a method to meet women that has been proven to work, there are other places to meet women that are more effective and with less problems.
Bars, and nightclubs
A classic method proven to work time and time again. Clubs and pubs are great places to meet girls, especially if you just looking for a hook up and aren't searching for a lasting commitment. You can get straight to the point and even if you don’t succeed and embarrass yourself, everyone else will forget about it the next day.
However they often share the same problem with dating apps. The number of single women in bars and clubs can tend to be quite low, and men will often outnumber the girls in many venues. Nevertheless, if you put yourself out there, they can be a great place to meet new girls.
Social circles
Perhaps one of the best ways to meet women. Introductions through friends or family are where the majority of people in relationships said they first met (32%)[1].
Lots of girls will be afraid of meeting random men, but they will have an easier time trusting you if they know someone you know, like a mutual friend.
A good social circle is a great place for dating opportunities so plan and organise events with your friends, tell them to invite their other friends. Loosen up and meet new people, make new friends and expand your social circle. Think twice about missing a party you’re invited to. All you have to do is show up, have a drink or two, mingle, and who knows? You might get to meet the girl of your dreams there.
A lot of women can can be found at work, and places of education, university, college etc. In fact up to 18% of relationships are made at work and 17% through education. You can participate in University activities and societies and take part in after-work drinks. Remember these are places where you can get to meet lots of different people in a single environment so make the most of it.
Work/education
A lot of women can can be found at work, and places of education, university, college etc. In fact up to 18% of relationships are made at work and 17% through education.
You can participate in University activities and societies and take part in after-work drinks.
Remember these are places where you can get to meet lots of different people in a single environment so make the most of it.
Speed dating
The entire purpose of speed dating is to quickly and effectively help men and women meet new people romantically, so it’s worth giving them a try.
Clubs/sport teams
Go join some sort of club or sports team. Examples include:
- Sports
- Dancing clubs
- Volunteering
- Music clubs
- Cooking classes
- Running clubs
They can often provide a fantastic way to spend some time doing what you enjoy and can sometimes provide a great way of meeting now girls. Even if not many girls join a club you go to, they give you a way of expanding your social circle, which will help you meet girls in the long run.
Concerts
Concerts offer a relaxed and fun social environment that are perfect for meeting new women who enjoy the same music you do. Just be friendly and talk about the music.
Conventions/events
Conventions and events are a great way to meet women. They provide the perfect opportunity for people with similar interests to meet, interact and have fun. Many events are held regularly to provide opportunities for people meet up and socialize.